Why judge....

Why do we judge?.

I just had an encounter a couple of hours ago. Initially as it was unfolding before my eyes i wanted to call out the waiter and a couple of people (no they dont qualify as guests) but i held it in instead and took pains to write him ie the waiter a short note before i left. The note simply stated STOP BEING A SHIT HEAD, HE IS NOT MY BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND AND IF HE WAS WHAT IS IT TO YOU? NONSENSE.

Kindly forgive my language my wai but I was blind with fury infact i still am. But boy did i get intense satisfaction watching him read it...and squeezing his face. Who cares? But for a minute I thought he will follow us to the parking lot...Like i will have unleashed my dormaa ahenkro bloodline on him. How annoying. He was soo standoffish, acting like he didnt hear me, and frowning at my guest.

Now the story > I took a client to a business lunch at a reputable hotel (name witheld) in Accra. It has really pained me paa. ah.
 He is old and white. I am black, young with short hair.  I get it i am young and he is old. It was time for buffet. Next time i will just go to a chop bar. Oh my. Anyways back to the story, from the time we entered the hotel, through lunch to our departure it was awkward. Eiii pressure. I know you might think i was the one who was prejudiced but naaa my white client asked if there was a problem because people were staring at him.
 I do not even know how i answered that queston. I am in no way defending his sensibilities because he is white. He is human and i think every human does not want to be stared at like he has a tree growing on his nose.

hmm yes i get it that is the trend of some young women today...marrying/duping (depending on how you want to look at it) white old men but efa woho ben?. Is it your body that is sleeping with the man or woman? Are you the one who will eventually answer for the sins of that person? why do you judge? if the person wants to sleep Medusa efa woho ben? We should learn to stay in our lanes. We all have a unique purpose to fufill on this earth, if you havent fulfilled yours why are staring elsewhere. It is different if you want to tell the person but if you dont want to share your thoughts with the person then kindy hush it and quit staring whilst you are at it.

Anyways,we ate lunch, infact because of that i chewed my chicken bones well before I left. People will not focus on inflation but rather they are worried about what man a woman is sleeping with.

About to leave on my way home. It will take me an hour from Tema (that is the site office) to Legon (home) I will be playing some Destiny's Child tracks. Agya nipa nso so ye den. Thursday Anigye. anaa?

Talk to you later,

Love

Me.